Stupidity

As I sat next to the pool, I think of things I have done in the past especially the stupid ones. There are some that are done because I have no knowledge what the impact would be to me, like a broken bone for instance :) (man that is one true pain). 25 years ago, I decided to run and fall and broke my hand never in my slightest mind that running can do that damage. So that is one stupidity for not having enough knowledge.

A breeze air just passed my face and I lingered in my mind again, is that it?
Is that the only trigger to stupidity nah I am sure there is more than this. So yeah another one would be less options or thinking of not having other options also known as desperado, when other choice of action seems impossible. When you were young, there are just tons of things that you think there is only one viable solution and that is the only thing you could do, boy was that so wrong.

Okay we covered two stupidities now, no knowledge of the future and no other options/desperado.

Then what? Can we go back to the past, I think not.
Would I do the same mistake having the knowledge that I have now most probably YES. Why is that? Cause if I change just a slight of my stupidity I may not end up where I am today. Okay so that’s cover the no knowledge part.
What about the second one the stupidity because of desperado very simple just make more options, in life there is always choice no matter how bad it is, trust me there will always more than one if you just look deeper.

And at the end if all those still fail you just have to use one of the NLP presuppositions
“PEOPLE ALWAYS MAKE THE BEST CHOICE AVAILABLE TO THEM AT THE TIME”

Blessing and Gratitude

It is easy to see weak points of anything. It is easy to criticize things. It is easy to compare things that we don’t have. Does it give you the pleasure you want by doing that? Is it going to make you feel better doing so? Most probably not, lingering on it day in day out will just make things worst. Questions like “Why me???” would just end up getting us deeper down the ground.

Though it seems hard, try to find 6 positive things you still have. Ok let me do it then
I still have people who loves me
I can still walk with my own feet
I can breath without any respiratory help
I still have a job
I still have shelter
Lastly, I still have love to share with the one I love

For those who don’t have the 6 I mentioned at least you can read and have internet connection.

Problems may come and go and if they stay with you for a while most probably because you are the most capable person to solve it.

I know it is easier said and done. If saying is easy, thinking about the positive things should not be that hard either, and from there I guess to start standing up again limb by limb. Stand stall and face the world once again.